Whom in our midst doesn’t always have some body within their past they cannot quite forget? (Pipe down, well-adjusted kinds here when you look at the straight back; one other 99 per cent of us do!) possibly he is from a decade ago; perhaps he is from ten minutes ago. In either case, you deserve to go on—and yes, it will be possible, for as the heart was meant to be broken ( many thanks, Oscar Wilde!), Gloria Gaynor was not simply blowing hot air: you can expect to survive.